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New Post 10/17/2005 7:52 AM
  slyn11
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Should Pacey and Andie have gotten back together? 
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Put P/J aside for the moment... Do you guys thing Pacey and Andie should have gotten back together? Should he have tried to move past her cheating? What could she have done to prove herself to Pacey? What would it have taken for them to get become a couple again?
 
New Post 10/17/2005 8:21 AM
  AKLohr
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Excellent questions. I am going to need a few mins to think about this that way i dont go off ranmbleing and losing focus of what I am trying to express. You got the little hampster in my head spinning his wheel in over drive with this one. Will post back soon.
 
New Post 10/17/2005 8:44 AM
  AKLohr
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Re: Should Pacey and Andie have gotten back together? 
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[quote:4f8e9245b4="slyn11"]Put P/J aside for the moment... Do you guys thing Pacey and Andie should have gotten back together? Should he have tried to move past her cheating? What could she have done to prove herself to Pacey? What would it have taken for them to get become a couple again?[/quote:4f8e9245b4] I think Pacey and Andie should have gotten back together. They had so much depth in their relationship. Even after Andie had gotten better she still needed Pacey, and Pacey needed Andie. His Junior year slip that almost cost him graduating proved that he still needed the belief that he was better then what people kept telling him he was. He needed that from help from Andie. I think he did get past Andie's cheating. I believe in the sceen where he is drunk on the peir, and he falls causing everything he had that reminded him of Andie fall in the water, reminded him of how much he needed that girl. I mean the look on his face as the photo of the two of them together slowly sank, you could see it in his eyes. He knew that he needed Andie. He just realized that she had come to not needing him. Or atleast thats what he believed as he watched his final reminder of Andie slowly slip from his reach. So I think he did get over it. He just made himself believe it was to late. I think if Andie would have tried to ease back into Pacey's life slower then she did. I think it would have caused Pacey to slip into his normal roles of being the Black Sheep. I think if she would have approached him after that had happened, she could have slowly rebuilt the relationship they once had. It wouldn't be the same. It could never be the same after that. The problem that was facing them was differant, and she needed to let Pacey come to her. He would have eventualy. He was still in love with her. He just needed to process how to deal with the issue. She just tried pushing to hard to fast. For them to be a couple again it would have taken some time. They needed to find a way to remember the way things were, re-evaluate their situation, and realize that they were not the same people apart as they were together. Friendship, needed to be re-established. Andie thought just trying to jump back into the swing of the way thing were would help. She didn't let Pacey deal with Pacey. She let it slip that Pacey can deal with anyone and anything, he just couldn't deal with himself. If she would have helped him deal with the way he felt about himself afterwards, instead of the way she wanted to feel. They would have gotten back together.
 
New Post 10/17/2005 10:32 PM
  DCgurl18
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Hmmm good questions! I'll have to come back to this in a few days....I can't put my thoughts together right now!
 
New Post 10/18/2005 8:06 PM
  jimidb
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To me it all comes back to one thing. Pacey J. Witter was a hopeless romantic. He believed in LOVE with all caps. To him being in love was the end to all things good. True Love wasn't just his boat, it was his ideal. The one thing he wanted with his whole heart. He told Andie in so many words that he could forgive her but not forget. And the reason is that he thought she was the one. The one he'd love forever. He decided that if she could cheat on him that she wasn't the one and nothing in his "experience" was going to allow him to change that. I don't think they would ever have gotten back together. I think, if anything, Andie's continued pursuit would've eventually ruined their friendship.
 
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